4 Tips For Modern Dating

DATING FOR BUSY PROFESSIONALS - UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL

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Believe it or not, your computer screen may be getting in the way of your dating life. While we may use technology to stay "connected" to friends and family, when it comes to meeting potential partners, the digital world obscures the thing that matters most: C H E M I S T R Y.

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To get a pulse on today's dating scene, we talked to Cindy Herington, one of the leading dating experts from "It's Just Lunch", the worlds largest personalized matchmaking service.  Here, she explains why you should ditch the laptop for the tabletop.

1. Ditch the Laptop

The premise of "It's Just Lunch" is simple: a lunch date or drink after work is the ideal first date. It's an no pressure, relaxed setting where you can talk face-to-face. "Real chemistry happens in person", Herington says. 

"You may be having a great online relationship, but when you finally meet, you discover that the person you've spent so much time with in cyberspace is nothing like what you imagined". Replace those digital emotions with a casual date and you'll know immediately if you should take it to the next level. 

2. Get a Wingman (or Wingwoman)

It's Just Lunch clients often refer to their matchmakers as their "dating Wingwoman" because they handle all of the dating logistics. Herington describes her role saying "We're genuinely interested in understanding our clients. We get to know you and what you're looking for".  Every IJL match is hand selected. There's no online profile for the world to see and it's all confidential.  After every date, IJL matchmakers receive feedback from each client in order to fine-tune the next match. "We offer something online services don't: someone to talk to".  Imagine having a full time dating Wingwoman working for you while you re focusing on your career and personal obligations.

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3. Boost Your Dating ROI (Return of Investment)

Who wants to spend hours sifting through online profiles and tryingn to connect via email, pokes and winks?  You don't have time to waste plying digital guessing games and meeting the wrong people.

With IJL's personalized match selection and date coordination, clients are able to save valuable time and energy. "After we select your match, we'll describe the person to you and confirm a convenient time and place for you to meet. All you have to do is show up and have fun meeting someone new", Herington says. Less time searching equals more time dating.

4. Date Smarter

Herington reminds singles that they can have a career and a relationship. They just have to "date smarter". IJL helps you make time for the things that matter. Since It's Just Lunch matchmakers take care of all the dating details, you can focus on finding that elusive chemistry that many feel escapes them. Most of them did not realize how easy and enjoyable dating can be.

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